Question 1

What happens in couples therapy?

Accepted Answer

We slow down recurring arguments, map the cycle beneath the conflict, and identify what each partner is trying to protect. Sessions focus on practical communication tools, repairing after disconnection, and practicing repeatable ways to respond on stressful days.

Question 2

Will you take sides in couples therapy?

Accepted Answer

My role is not to declare one partner the winner. I pay attention to the relationship pattern, each person's experience, accountability, boundaries, and safety. That does not mean treating harmful behavior as equally shared or avoiding difficult feedback.

Question 3

Can we use insurance for couples therapy?

Accepted Answer

Insurance may cover couples or family sessions when the service is medically necessary for the treatment of a covered diagnosis. Relationship distress by itself may not qualify. Integrated Therapy and Recovery can help verify benefits before treatment begins.

Question 4

What is your professional status and who supervises your work?

Accepted Answer

Alexander Emile Marshi, MA is a Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (AMFT #159153), employed by Integrated Therapy and Recovery Inc., and supervised by Alex Lerza, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT #83946).

Love Gets Better on Purpose.